Having sex in public places is not only a great way to get your vitamin D fix, but it can also improve your relationship because it is risky, daring, and unexpected. Breaking the mold and getting excited about new things is a great way to reignite the passion between you and your significant other, so why not try being a little naughty in the light of day?
If you and your partner want to improve your sex life in a natural way or generally have experiences outside the usual routine, we strongly recommend that you read the rest of this text, as it may convince you to rediscover the charm of sex in unconventional places.
Sex In Public Places: Let’s Clarify
For porn lovers and regulars of sites like theporncouch, this clarification may be obvious, but since we want to reach a wider audience, let’s try to clarify what we mean by sex in public places.
First of all, exposing yourself in places of public frequentation does not mean giving up the couple’s privacy. We are not saying that you should surround yourself with voyeurs or have sex in a public square at 4 in the afternoon, but simply, by public places we mean places open to the public, where you can go without limitations.
If you want to maintain a natural context, typical places are woods, fields, and beaches; if you opt for a more urban context, the dressing rooms of a store, the bathroom of a club, a cinema, etc. Here, the only limit is your imagination.
Increases Excitement And Strengthens The Bond
The Simpsons even made an episode on this topic. When it comes to life as a couple, routine is often the first obstacle that makes us distance ourselves from our partner over time. Sometimes, even if the relationship is solid and the two genuinely love each other, after a long time, it is necessary to throw a little gasoline to rekindle the fire of passion and make the sexual act as stimulating as at the beginning of the relationship.
In the Simpsons episode “Natural Born Kissers”, Matt Groening masterfully describes the problem. Trapped in the daily routine and constantly followed by their children, in this episode for Homer and Marge finding a moment of intimacy is a challenge. Fortunately their car suddenly breaks down and the two rediscover their clandestine passion in a stable, fueled by the fear of being discovered by the farmer.
This article aims to analyze precisely this behavior.
From that moment on, the couple begins to make love in a series of public places, where the fear of being discovered is emphasized, generating an over-boost of excitement in both. Groening knows a lot, no doubt about it.
We are sure that if you have never had sex in public environments, you are starting to think about it … don’t you??
It is clear how high pressure, the possibility of being discovered, and the lack of planning certainly make the experience much better than the same old routine. A shared adventure in secret strengthens your bond because taking calculated risks together strengthens your relationship. Furthermore, being spontaneous is essential for a relationship to stay alive. Arranging an unexpected last-minute meetup and disrupting your usual planned schedule can make your partner more interested in you. Of course, this is true for new relationships, but especially for long-term ones.
Get Closer to Each Other
A good way to boost your and your partner’s confidence is to try something new together. You may feel braver and more daring after having sex in public, and when you both feel more confident in other aspects of your relationship, you feel closer.
Having sex in public can help you bond more deeply with each other because it makes you more aware of each other’s sexual boundaries and preferences. Of course, an activity like this requires a lot of trust and communication. By having sex in public with your partner, you can both find new fantasies together and have something else to share.
Helpful Tips for Having Sex in Public Spaces
Before you indulge in having sex in public, make sure you carefully and slowly choose covered places that offer some privacy and, of course, if you don’t want to be seen, stay away from crowded or visible places. Your car, a quiet park, or a beach alone might be better options than places where you might encounter the police or other civilians.
Also, in many places, having sex in public is illegal, so be aware of what could happen if you get caught in the act. For this reason, be very careful where and with whom you do it (if your partner screams, maybe avoid traffic places), as you could get into legal trouble and get a hefty fine.
Do You Have To Talk To Your Partner About This?
No, it has to be a spontaneous act.
You should definitely confide in him about this new curiosity or fantasy of yours and see if he agrees to this type of experience, but the moment a place seems perfect to you, don’t dwell too much on words; move on to action. Tip: Try a quiet place like your garden or balcony before going to more dangerous areas.
Keep The Flame Alive
To keep the spark alive in your relationship, regardless of your and your partner’s gender and sexual orientation, both of you need to put in the effort and commitment. You also need to, at least sometimes, think outside the box and find new ways to surprise and excite each other, especially sexually. Having sex in public is a way to show your partner that you are willing to go the extra mile for them and your relationship. It shows that you are serious about keeping your sex life interesting and engaging, and it also brings out your fun and adventurous spirit.
The memories you can create this way could last a lifetime because of how beautiful and meaningful they can be. Years from now, you will laugh and remember these fun times fondly. We can all admit that losing touch with your partner is easy if you are not careful and/or considerate enough. In our humble opinion, public sex can help you find that old flame for several reasons we’ve expressed above, but it’s certainly not the only one.
See you in the following article on couple advice! Stay tuned!
